the bbw community and twitter:
what took yall so long?
forums, message boards, communities, what-ever you call them – have been around for some time now. you can still find mi digging for information and user opinions on forums, but getting mi to actually join one is a chore. i suck mi tongue when confronted with the entire process of singing up for yet, another message board! one can be thankful for the new wave of social networking and web 2.0 applications that reach beyond the limited capabilities of myspace and typical forums.
for those unaware of what a BBW is; Big Beautiful Woman – coined by a magazine for plus-sized women. our good friend wikipedia has a fairly accurate definition of the term and its history, and as with everything under the sun, it has its own community (also referred to as the size-acceptance community) — made up of BBWs, SSBBWs (Super-Sized BBW), BHMs (Big Handsome Men) and admirers (the category i would fit into). we have HUNDREDS of events, such as the annual BBW Vegas Bash, monthly nightclubs like Club Sinsations or the weekly Butterfly Lounge, and even a magazine that rivals the class and style of Playboy called, BODacious Magazine! the scene even boasts its own A-list with such names as; DJ Skelly, Los Angeles rapper Tree, and the world-famous Goddess Patty (who appeared on Jackass 2). i could go on about the infinty that is the BBW community, but i would like to tell you a bit about some of mi friends (old and new) that have recently found their way to our favorite twitterhood!
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My name is Olivia, and I’m a BBW webmodel from Portland, Oregon. When I started modeling, I was unsure that I was even someone that people wanted to look at. I saw a few websites and a few magazines and had some interest from friends that I’d talked to online. Now I’ve been webmodeling for 3 years and love every minute. I have met some of the most awesome people online, and now I’m meeting new people on twitter. How can life get any better than this? Some of the most sexiest BBW’s and the greatest admirers out there, and I’m glad to say I’m a part of it.
I’ve been involved in the BBW/fat-acceptance community in some capacity since I was a senior in college, almost 15 years ago. I started as a budding young activist, then ended up on the sidelines after getting my fill of the movement’s internal politics. No matter what, I’ve never stopped being an open voice about not only my attraction to fat women, but also to my conviction of their rights to empowerment in all its forms. So, I find myself virtually (and sometimes physically) rubbing elbows with a wide cross-section of communities, from the activists to the social event coordinators to the swingers to the adult industry workers (on- and off-screen). As I said, I love fat women. But most of all, I also just love people — when I’m not pounding my head against the desk at some of their latest stupidities!
Hey all I am Bi-servantgirl, BSG or Cat. I am a BBW Model, Web Cam hostess, and will have a couple of sites coming out soon. Thanks to Tofu and Desiree I am addicted to Twitter, hate to see what happens when I get a new phone.. Holy moly.. I use the web for it now, and then Tofu had to go and tell us about Twirl, OMG!! Anyways, I am a dork, I like to chat, and have fun. By now everyone who knows anything about me, know I love Harry Potter. I love Non-Fiction, my drug of choice. So come and follow along, be glad to have ya biservantgirl on tweets…
My name is T_Devil, I have been a part of the BBW Community for little bit longer than 12 years. I have always wanted to be a part of it because I really love fat girls and I want to see them do well in life. I definently love the BBW Modeling business because I have some friends who are models. I’m a fan, but these girls really are friends to me. I hope to increase my presance in the BBW world with my writing and other creative talents that I’m constantly developing. I hope to move to Seattle and make a living of it. We all dream of doing what we want and getting paid for it. This is my dream. I am willing to do what it takes to become a presence in the community that doesn’t have to speak the loudest, because it is the one with one of the most profound effects.
Hey everyone, this is ~Secret~ and please believe me I am the only Secret you will ever want to keep to yourself! I’m still fairly new to all this bbw community, I got my start in it all in April of 2007 when I went to shoot for BODacious Magazine and ended up in Issue 7….it was amazing because coming from where I’m from…us big girls aren’t shit to anyone. My first movie comes out August 28th from that shoot as well called Bumpin Body Phat. I am currently in the process of savin up to get moved to LA or Vegas to be more accessible to shoots and hope to get my website up and running soon. I hope everyone can come and join us all at twitter.com soon.
Hey ya’ll… my name is Desiree Devine and I would consider myself a newbie to the BBW community. I have not been a BBW my entire life, but at 6′ and 300lbs, I think I’m settling in nicely. The thing I notice is that no matter your size, people are attracted to confidence and with all of the support I have I would seem
unappreciative if I was anything but! My first experience into the “BBW World” came at the end of 2007 when I was asked by Samantha38G to do a video with her in Florida for Sensational Video, without much hesitation I agreed. For me, I am proud to say that I am a BBW porn starlet… I have no shame and no regrets. I have had the time of my life and met some amazing individuals that I can honestly say will be life long friends.
{this final twitter-buddy is active within the weight-loss community.
she still considers herself a BBW, and shes still mi homegirl. read on..}
I’m 20 from Connecticut. Single mother. Trying to lose weight but still want to be thick. I want to run or mange a 24hr homeless shelter. I am Christian, I like to blog and meet new and different people. Young but with many goals; I want to lose weight enough to have a flat stomach but still thick and have curves. Main reason is for health and for my son, but also so I can feel sexier and be able to do more things physically. I vlog on youtube and also blog about it at chunkyricanxo.tumblr.com
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21.Aug.08 
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Protected: News Flash: IM NOT PERFECT (edited for clarity)!!!!
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17.Apr.08 Randumb, Rants Enter your password to view comments
Fat Admirers Are Everywhere
F.A.’s are everywhere you look. of course, some wont readily admit that theyre f.a’s, but they are, just the same. they come in all flavors and both genders. even trannys enjoi a bit of SSBBW…
- some are in the grocery store, pushing their baskets around. theyll see a nice big, round ass, get distracted by it, and end up in the ‘feminine product’ isle.
- some are homeless. and the sight of a voluptuous vixen with a pear shape will stop him in the middle of his speech: “say brotha, wont you help mi get a bit of…..um…ooooooh, god gawd all mighty!”
- some work at torrid, helping girls find their choice look for the summer. ive witnessed with mi baby browns; girls on the prowl. very touchy-feely with the customers while helping them. she runs her hand down the customers thigh while showing off a dress. even following some into the dressing room.
other F.A.’s will protest til the bitter end, “fuck that shit – i dont do fat girls”. yet, given the opportunity – they slide away with a cute fatty at the end of the night. alcohol may or may not have anything to do with it. but like mi mom always says: the drunk mind reveals what the sober mind conceals.
F.A.’s are your older relatives. mi uncle from down south that talks loud, is very charismatic, and LoVes the company of a full figured beauty. he will look right through a thin gal if her big friend is standing ahead.
some F.A.’s are often compulsive, fucking anything because it wiggles and jiggles.
some F.A.’s are selfish. you claim to be on a diet, or consider gastric bypass, and theyll abandon you.
some F.A.’s are only admirers because they like to control people.
some F.A.’s will leave right after they cum, and never speak to you again.
some F.A.’s kill the ones theyre with, by over feeding them or starving them.
some F.A.’s will try to drag your good name thru the mud on the internet (fuck you).
some F.A.’s are really sick fuckers.
some F.A.’s are better off not knowing.
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05.Apr.08 Randumb, bbw Comments (3)
What I Would Do To Nikki Blonsky (pt. 1)
the setting: Las Vegas, NV
i would more than likely have to rent a crazy vehicle. so off I would go to Enterprise or somethin and talk to mi homies sister so i could get the good discount. im not sure if they have luxury vehilces….anyway. i would pay one of mi cousins (probably in WEED) to drive while i sat in the back, like a cold piece. then i would go pick her up at her hotel. dressed to the T: the armani suit i RARELY wear cause its the only one i have, a humorous tie, like spongebob or scoobydoo (so she knows i dont take miself too seriously), and some polished stacy adams.
did i mention flowers? yeah, i would have mi cousin open the door to the car as i presented her with 12 carnations, cause roses are overrated. she would be like “aw, thank you! these are beautiful!” i would politely nodd as we enter the backseat and speed off into the artificial lights of the Vegas night… We would go see Zumanity (assuming she aint seen it yet), and sit in them prime seats. the handful of people i know in Vegas would see mi and shout “tooooooooof!”. the many that know Nikki would be like “oh mi god, your tracy turnblad, i love you so much, can we take this picture real quick…” and as the show progresses, she would feel a subtle but sensual feeling creep into her. periodically, i would glance at her to see her throwing mi that look…
if you know mi, you know i HATE the strip (most locals do), so to show her some culture – i would slide mi cousin his/her next 20 sack of purple weed to drive us back her hotel so she could get dressed in something more comfy and less dressy. meanwhile, im in the backseat, changing into mi sean john jeans, and a solid color tee, DC’s, and the white-gold chain mi grandma bought mi. once she returned to the car, we would go see the REAL las vegas. sliding up in Mooses on S Maryland Pkwy, joe would greet us at the door and ask who the lovely lady is, thats now clingin to mi skinny arm. i would tell him and he probably wouldnt know, cause hes the type of guy who doesnt watch anything but sports. we would hit the bar and the chick behind the bar knows who she is and makes a scene (thats where i dont have to pay for drinks for the rest of the evening). from that point, i would stand back and let her get her shine on with more pictures, autographs, and admiration from guys trying to be starfuckers. of course she would shoot em down with “im sorry, im here with a sweet gentleman tonight…” [hey, fuck yall...this is MI fantasy]. the packed dancefloor would part at our entrace. the way i move would make her SO very horny. she would be thinking, “wow…finally! a straight guy who can keep up with mi on the floor!”.
and as the security bounced people out by yelling the trademarked “GET THE FUCK OUT PEOPLE! I WANNA GO HOME AND FUCK MI GIRLFRIEND!!!“, the patrons would file out, but we would be invited to stay after and talk to joe and the rest of the staff as they brought us buffalo wings and other finger-foods. tipsy, not drunk. she would be like “so im kinda winded…wanna take mi back to mi hotel?” and of course, i would tell mi cousin, “drive“. when we arrive and mi cousin opens the door, she would slip out and say something like, “wow, i had a great night, Tofu. youre an awsome guy. *giggle* … im a bit embarrassed to say this, but….you wanna come up for a while?” as she bites her lower lip.
…to be continued.
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04.Apr.08 Words, bbw Comments (4)
podcast #0: bbwnetwork/bbwradio slowjam mixtape vol.1
mm’kay, this is a bit of a throwback, but i gotta get @ least one podcast up for the link lists. BBW Network’s BBW Vegas Bash . simply put; the most fun i have all year, every year. if you are an admirer of big beautiful women, or a bbw yourself, this is where you need to be every summer. the following is a promotional mix CD for the bash and size acceptance radio staion, BBWRADIO.com, mixed by yours truly!
please use caution while usin this mix – people have conceived children while fuckin to this mix, then called mi house, holding mi responsible.
playlist: artist – song title
1. art of noise – moments in love
2. jill scott – spring summer feeling
3. usher/ludacriss – lovers n friends
4. too$hort/funkadelic – ive been watching you (move your sexy body)
5. janet – anything
6. twista – get it wet
7. devin the dude – bust one for ya
8. meshell Ndegeocello – stay
9. jill scott – cross my mind
10. Entitee – move on
11. stevie wonder – ribbon in the sky
12. sade – lovers rock
13. massive attack – teardrop
14. d’angelo – the root
15. bryan mcknight – anytime
16. outkast – prototype
17. lauryn hill/d’angelo – nothin even matters
18. missy elliot/ginuwine – friendly skies
19. faith evans – stop n go
20. meshell Ndegeocello – Mary Magdalene
21. dwele – whoomp
22. prince – on the couch
22.5 bloopers and outtakes
Mandy Blake appears courtesy of mandysplayhouse.com
Zik appears courtesy of BODacious Magazine
Brie Brown appears courtesy of BBWradio
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06.Mar.08 Podcasts Comment (1)
